The Narcissist becomes a pervasive social attention seeking provocateur. But not one who wants to be held accountable for whatever attention seeking antics they pull.
Narcissists play the blame game for sport. Of course they do — all narcy people are of the socially competitive sort!
Narcissists are socially competitive with their mate. Make no mistake about it — they single out people who they know are kind, empathic, and basically overall great so they can move in and emotionally denigrate.