Narcissists are socially competitive with their mate. Make no mistake about it — they single out people who they know are kind, empathic, and basically overall great so they can move in and emotionally denigrate.
Everything in the Narcissist’s mind tells them other people are out to get them and to socially best them for spite or malice on every occasion. Being married to or dating one does not leave you with an Immunity Necklace that can protect you from their mind games and covert passive aggressive sandtraps.
Whether playing golf or struggling to fight your way out of the quicksand in some South Florida-like swamp, a trap is a trap. Baron Von Trap is likely to socially compete because he’s been nurtured to use about as much social and emotional actual intelligence as a barnyard actual lame and haggard-looking arse.
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Malignant Somatic and or Cerebral Somatic Narcissists are typically the most socially competitive and likely to undermine their spouse and children constantly of all. Why? Not for any reason other than sport.